Ask The Ass Mondays

ViviVoom last week we had a discussion on Fuck Buddies, this week she is interested in Friends with Benefits. Is there really a difference? Last week she asked if you should have emotions with a FUCK Buddy, so is there really any difference between women having emotions with their FUCK Buddy and Friends with Benefits? Hell no there is no difference, this is simply women romanticizing a relationship of pure pleasure that they are not suppose to have. Men are “supposed” to sleep around with no remorse, but women are looked down on for it. Beyond that, women, unless they have been damaged at an early age, they can not have sex without emotions… It’s mentally impossible for them. The real question is when you are friends with benefits; do you allow them to have other Fuck Buddies, FWB, girlfriends or wives? With any relationship you should communicate on the boundaries… there is not set rules, or as simple as black and white. You should first be honest with yourself as to what you want from all your relationships platonic or sexual.

Phashant - Why does Andrew ask Questions?
I don't really ask too many questions. Ask the Ass Mondays is for my readers to ask me quesitons. I do sometimes incorporate questions into my write to get my readers think, and to get them to find the right answer for themselves.

Ask The Ass Mondays

Oh yes I am an Ass, but now I'm an award winning ASS!!!! Last week I asked the question, but I'm back answering questions. This week it seems we have ventured away from politics and race this week is sex and tags... Not neccessarily in that order!!

ViViVoom - Does it really matter who fucks a fuck buddy? Are their emotions involved with a fuck buddy? I have a male friend (not a fuck buddy) and he tells me that he has absolutely no emotional ties to his women fuck buddies. Is it a gender thing maybe? Or ego?
*Ok first off I don't buy that it is a gender thing. Like I have said before men don't have less emotions just show them differently than women. Sex is an emotional experience. Men can have emotionalless sex. To men the act of sex is a game that involves conquering. Now if you start to spend "quality time" together and have sex on a continual basis emotions will develop on both end. I have heard both male and females have rules to keep emotions out of the way of their pleasure: Always have a 2 week gab when have sex with your sex buddy, never spend the night, never have sex with a "fuck buddy" more than 3 times... I'm sure all of you have heard more ways to do this but thats a start. Ego? Mens emotions are refered to as their ego while women refer to their emotions as Self Esteem. Its the same shit!!! At the end of the day you have to be honest with yourself and set self boundaries. If you don't have the discipline to create and stick to personal rules of engagement you will be emotional basket case in any relationship whether physical or long-term commitment.

Katie - She tagged me with some story that you were suppose to pick out 8 facts. I'm going to be completely honest... I really didn't get it!!! Katie is new here I want to welcome her, so if you would explain what the hell you want me to do then I will be happy to put my ASS spin on it.

Maybe one of my readers can get it
http://everyoneelsehasablog.blogspot.com/2007/07/rules-are-made-to-be-broken.html

Special Edition

As many of my regular readers know Mondays are “Ask The Ass” Day, were you ask an array of questions and I answer them as only the Ass can. But today will be different… I’m asking the questions!!! I am asking you to create the future. I am interested in a movement that will be known as TV 2.0. I am considering getting involved with a new internet TV network, Whoosh TV, but more importantly is what you would want?

What features would make you watch TV on the internet, the way past generations have watched traditional TV networks? Netflix allows you to watch movies, generally older movies, for a small monthly fee. Itunes, Imovies and soon Apple TV charges each time you download something. You Tube is free and advertisers pay for the cost of running the business. Viacom just invested $45 million into Joost TV. That is the past, but what will the future look like?

I’ve heard some great ideas from have viewers interact with each other while watching “TV” together, Live broadcasting, and some speak of redefining news, and the next generation of blogging. But in you opinion what do you want TV 2.0 to be like?

Whoosh TV